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Scam bots PSA: behind the girl in your DMs is a man that calls himself winterbaby850

N NextExGirlfriend Β· 17 Jul 2026 Β· 2 min read Questions & Tips

Cummunity. Gather.

You know the profile. Impossibly hot, one lonely toy pattern, a like count that doesn’t match her zero actual conversations. She DMs you “add me on Lovense babe 😍😍😍” and then, one line later, “my Tlgrm is @…”*

That pivot is the scam.

I got tired of watching it work on people, so I started investigating these profiles. Here’s the part that reframes everything: it’s not hundreds of different people. One handle, was literally twenty of those “girls.” Same script behind every face, barely reworded.

How they fake being real:

  • Stolen SFW pics from actual pornstars to farm likes fast. (Increasingly AI!! Check the hands, the earrings, the melty background.)
  • Often a toy pattern, posted purely to have something there, farm likes.
  • Bulk likes in sudden waves. Likes your comments, never answers them. If they “reply,” an AI responds exactly once, then goes dark.

And the one I need you to sit with: a high remote level is NOT proof someone’s real. That number rewards likes and follows, exactly what these accounts farm with stolen photos and bulk likes. Judge the conversation, not the score.

Every like you hand a random hot selfie helps a bot look real enough to rob someone. Think before you tap.

How they take your mΓ³ney:

  • Sob stories. A sick relative, rent they can’t make, a hardship only you can fix.
  • Gift cards: Am@zon, Ste@m, Google Pl@y. Untraceable, irreversible. Anyone asking for g!ft cards is a scammer. Full stop.
  • “Verify” links built to harvest your card or password.
  • Sextortion. Bait the content, then threaten to leak it.

The rules. Tattoo them:

  1. Remote level β‰  trustworthy.
  2. Never follow anyone off-platform who won’t talk to you here first.
  3. Never pay in g!ft cards, and never enter card details to “verify” anything.
  4. Block and report. Don’t engage: even a reply feeds their AI and their metrics and enables them.

The full forensic version; every tell, the handle table, the receipts. Check the pinned comment, pleease.

Look after each other. The newbies especially.

🧚🏻 Nextie

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