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#Goals: Be A Sl*t

N NextExGirlfriend · 2 Mar 2026 · 2 min read Connect Her Power

Let’s gather around the fireside and let me tell you a story:

I always dreamt of being a sl*t <3

Not in the degrading way.

In the “I want equal access to pleasure without disproportionate risk” kind of way.

Because men can sleep around and the worst likely outcome is awkwardness (or like STIs and a baby if they’re yk, not thinking.)

Me? If I want to sleep around, I have to calculate like I’m launching a NASA mission.

With contingency plans. And backup contingency plans. And location sharing on.

Physical safety.
Coercion.
Recording.
Reputation.
Pregnancy.
STIs.
Emotional manipulation.
Social judgment.

Desire for women isn’t just appetite.
It’s risk management.
Like with spreadsheets and stuff.

So yeah. That dream is unlikely to come true IRL.
Unless I suddenly develop combat training and a legal team.

But on the app?
I get to play and be as sl*tty as I like 😈

Remote-controlled pleasure gives me multiplicity without the vulnerability tax.

I can explore.
I can play.
I can orgasm with one person. Or several.
I can experiment with dynamics.
I can stop instantly.
I can close the app.
I can remove the device.

No bodily risk.
No STI risk.
No being physically overpowered.
No secretly filmed moments.
No walking home calculating escape routes.

✨That’s HUGE.✨

(Groundbreaking concept: women enjoy pleasure when they feel safe. Ik ik, please use the Oxford reference method when quoting me.)

For a long time, when I said I wanted sexual freedom, what I meant was:
I wanted the same margin of safety men take for granted.

Technology doesn’t erase risk in the world.

But it lets me design my own container.
I choose who enters my pleasure.
I choose when.
I choose how.

And I think women aren’t “less sexual.”
We’re just more risk-aware.

Vigilance kind of kills libido, yk?
Nothing says “seductive” like scanning the room for exits.
Adrenaline is great.
Just not the “am I in danger?” kind.

When I feel safe?
I play harder.
I open more.
I go feral.

Toys give me that margin of safety.

So yeah.
I’m living my best digital sl*t life <3

Happy IWD to all my fellow women dreaming of the sl*t life or maybe just the chill and enjoy pleasure life. Both are cool. Honestly? Same energy.

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